When Your BFF Moves Away
How to keep the friendship alive June 11th, 2012 at 9:52am

Friends are an amazing and important part of life. Some girls stay lifelong friends, and others part ways in a few weeks. When a really good friend moves way, it's important to remember the good times and keep the friendship alive, even when there are miles and miles between the two of you!

Miss Smackers herself has had friends move away. I know how hard it is! When someone is in your life on a daily basis, it's sad to lose that connection. However, you can still be friends! The best way friends keep in touch is by regular contact. Try writing emails, greeting cards or call every day. You could even play computer or phone games online together. Maybe do a video chat! And if you loose touch for awhile, there's no harm in calling up randomly to say "What's up?"

Make a scrapbook of the good times you've shared and plan a "going away party," even if the party just entails a movie and some snacks. The two of you can also make a necklace or friendship bracelet that symbolizes your history together.

Keep in mind, even if you lose touch, there's always a piece of the person with you. The memories and whatever you've learned from the person will stick around forever.

The short story is if you care about someone, make an effort to keep in touch. But if the friendship fades over time, know it's not your fault, and you will make lots of other friends through life. Remember, that special friend will always be part of who you are today!

XOXO,
Miss Smackers

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kkyuoo (AT) says: March 21st, 2013 at 2:44pm EST
i had a friend move away she called me all the time

♥CottonCandy♥ (AZ) says: January 30th, 2013 at 12:03pm EST
Awww! I'v never had a friend move away! I'm homeschooled and my best friend goes to public school but we still hangout ALOT and text and call ALL THE TIME! :)

Rose86118 (WA) says: November 17th, 2012 at 11:04pm EST
Very informative! :)

102682 (AL) says: October 18th, 2012 at 4:48pm EST
I met alot of friends at camp and it is very hard to part....but I know were friends for life. :o)

ArabHorseGirl (VA) says: September 3rd, 2012 at 7:51pm EST
I'm moving soon and I'm really going to miss everyone :( Anyone else in this pickle too?

moonfire (OK) says: July 13th, 2012 at 3:57pm EST
i will be moving soon and away from all my friends it sucks i have lived here all my life and now i will be moving :( i know i will make new friends but it still sucks and my dad can't wait to move i want to move but at the same time i don't i have mixed feelings about moving and not moving crazycoolbff :(

Twinkles77 (AL) says: June 27th, 2012 at 10:24pm EST
i'm moving away from most of my friends, we're going to different high schools next year, so

we Facebook, Twitter, E-mail, text and call, Skype and we plan hang outs once in a while

Sunny4132 (IL) says: June 13th, 2012 at 3:23pm EST
i have recently moved away from all of my friends. I didnt even know about it. My mom just pretty much took me away. it sucks. i feel like she ruined my life. And she did. But the good thing is that i met this AMAZING girl, who is now my BFF!!! But me and my old BFFs talk every day!!! SOO if you move away, my advice to you is to keep in touch!!! :)

You Only Live Once (CA) says: June 11th, 2012 at 10:46pm EST
i'm going to another school without any known friend

Girly♥Girl (TX) says: June 11th, 2012 at 7:53pm EST
I've had this happen to me Thanks for the tips!

flutegurl (CO) says: June 11th, 2012 at 1:43pm EST
We email each other a lot. :D

flutegurl (CO) says: June 11th, 2012 at 1:43pm EST
My dad's in the army, so that happens a lot.

I think I've moved away from 4 good friends and had 5 good friends move away from me. :(



I only have contact with one of them now and she moved away 2 years ago.

I still consider her my best friend.