swimmergirl_99 (IL)  asks
June 27th, 2010 at 4:18pm

Miss Smackers I'm sooooo flat chested! People make fun of me and my bff because we are so flat! We have talked about stuffing bras but we really don't want to! We both are also REALLY skinny and people make fun of us for that too! I'm really sick of this and I NEED answers because we're going into 6th grade next year!!!!!!!!!!!!

Miss Smackers replies
July 7th, 2010 at 3:07pm

Be patient! Everyone's body will develop at different rates. It will happen!!! AND we get the body we get. As long as you eat healthy and exercise, your body will be the best it can be. I always say that there is no use in comparing your body to anyone else. It is a waste of energy. We were born with the body we got, we should take care of it and feel great about it. 'Cuz guess what - it's the only one you'll ever have. I was pretty skinny too in sixth grade. Well, I did develop, a little. But, never got too big. I had to accept what I have. Give it time. You're not done growing yet!! And I promise you that whatever body you have, it is FANTASTIC. It breathes, it laughs, it feels, it moves, it dances, and its alive!!! So love it and give it an awesome life!!!!

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trollz (ME)  says: September 5th, 2010 at 9:49pm EST
please dont stuff ur bra it is unneeded,i am your age and have trouble with it too! in most cases girls who stuff their bra are incicure of their body dont show that to the world!!!

Leti (IL)  says: September 2nd, 2010 at 7:01pm EST
That happened to me when i was in 5th grade. Im going to 8th grade and they grew alot over these 3 years!!

katena1999 (CN)  says: August 21st, 2010 at 3:53pm EST
I feel the same way! I'm your age and I still wear a training bra! Ignore them! You'll have the last laugh! And boys find different sizes attractive. \hang in there and you'll start growing!

sugarcrystals (CN)  says: August 6th, 2010 at 3:51pm EST
lipsmackergurl10...

where do you get edaname beans? and do they taste good or bad?? please tell me.

shawty4evr (GA)  says: August 4th, 2010 at 9:48pm EST
cc96:



u r tottaly right! it gets really anoying sometimes! besides, bras can get really uncomfortable!

shawty4evr (GA)  says: August 4th, 2010 at 9:47pm EST
HEY! dont worry! i felt the same way. but now, i'm on my way to high school, and i'm a 36c!

eatmybubbles628 (NC)  says: August 4th, 2010 at 4:05pm EST
hey swimmergirl_99 i <3 swimming to! omg! tell me about it if you get a chance!!!!

mckenster (AZ)  says: August 3rd, 2010 at 8:34pm EST
i am right there with you i am sreally flat too amd my friend wears a padded bra and my mom wont let me get one:(

berryberry (NY)  says: August 2nd, 2010 at 10:14pm EST
thats nothing dont worry about it!!! im in seventh grade right now and I don't even own a bra.. im flat too! everyone will develeop by their own time... be patient.. try not to think about it... don't care about other people.. it's their problem

ziz2 (MA)  says: July 30th, 2010 at 11:56am EST
it works!

ziz2 (MA)  says: July 30th, 2010 at 11:55am EST
wear a padded bra!

heygirl123 (CN)  says: July 30th, 2010 at 11:19am EST
i am starting july 31

☮ Abercrombie♥Chicky ☮ (WI)  says: July 28th, 2010 at 3:14pm EST
i know how u feel girly!!



im 13 in september and im 73 pounds....and im going intom 7th grade and im a 32AA!!!





just dont stuff your bra!!!!






starrystar63 (NJ)  says: July 27th, 2010 at 10:38am EST
i luv me and you should too! it will be complicated at first, but then you get the bra you will get used to it like me. also then you won't have to worry much like me or my bffl's. then when you get used to them you can shop more and feel like a grown up. some people also wish to be you like me, but we became who we are so we can't change. life will be tough at the beginning, but will get a lot easier

at the end.and never stuff a bra, my bff did that, came down to the shirt, will get hit in their with a ball or something, etc.so never stuff a bra. so if you don't feel comfortable buy a padded or a the one with cups, you decide.sorry this took long.:D













<3


rainbow2girl (AL)  says: July 26th, 2010 at 8:38pm EST
sounds like my situation aren't boobs a pain and once you get boobs then the only thing you'll be woorrying about is your period

CaliforniaGirl97:) (CA)  says: July 25th, 2010 at 10:16pm EST
Honey.., if you think this is a big problem you have NO idea how... well diffrent things will get.Boys will tend to be more...perverted.(I guess it's because this is the time when MOST, not ALL girl's bodies develop *stressed sigh*) I'm not trying to scare you, Im just warning you. be careful around guys.../:

Animal Lover2 (PA)  says: July 23rd, 2010 at 7:08pm EST
Besides you dont want a period.Shopping for bras takes like 4evr!Also they paded 1s itch lik crazy!Just get this through ur head :



!!BOOBS R A PAIN!!


mcmuffin;-) (IL)  says: July 23rd, 2010 at 6:55pm EST
you're lucky!!! i wish I was flat-chested. I'm not overweight or anything, but I developed faster than most girls in my grade, and I feel ashamed by it. I look at girls with flat chests and i'm actually kinda jealous of them. So please, don't consider that a fault.

Animal Lover2 (PA)  says: July 22nd, 2010 at 3:37pm EST
I agree with Mrs. Smackers. I think you should be lucky that you are skinny because now there are alot of girls your age that are overweight and would WISH they had your body anyway. And Besides I AM overweight and all my frends r skinny and I don't give a crap! My friend has big ears ,my other one is really short, also my other one has real stackey hair too.Everyone has there own beauty problems and I bet you the people that laugh at you have a realy bad beauty problem too and the real reason why people r laughing at is because they just want to drag atennion a way from them. So the next time peps laugh at you just say that they r just need to get confedenience in thereselves to laugh at you.

crissygirl7 (KS)  says: July 22nd, 2010 at 3:06pm EST
JUST BE HAPPY THAT THERES ONLY ONE OF YOU UR ONE OF A KIND SURELY THERE PICKING ON U CAUSE SOME1 ELSE IS PICKING ON TO MAKE THEIR SELF BETTER THEM JUST BE UR SELF AND UR TIME WILL COME AND IT WILL BE SPECICAL B-P

ilovetycolvin21 (IL)  says: July 21st, 2010 at 9:03pm EST
Be proud of who you are and don't pretend to be someone your not.

luvslipgloss101 (MO)  says: July 21st, 2010 at 11:33am EST
LOL that sounds like me was going into 6th grade well i was embarresed in 5th and begining of 6th because every1 els had bigger ones but in the 4th month a school i had a big growth spurt and BAM! your time will come but dont judge your self if i hadent i would have had a better first 4 months of 6th grade!

sweetheart346 (TX)  says: July 21st, 2010 at 3:56am EST
Every girl sometimes goes through these but trust me your breasts will come soon. Dont stuff your bra because some people might be able to tell. My friends friends friends lol has big ones and she told me she wants to actually just rip or give them out to someone else :P so sometimes its good to have none then to have some and not like it at all xD

kaykay10 (AL)  says: July 21st, 2010 at 12:03am EST
they are just try to be all that

Kayla7368 (TX)  says: July 20th, 2010 at 4:12pm EST
Hey its ok everyone is different your time will come trust me. I am going in to 7 and i am not that big. So enjoy it while you can

glossluv4ever (CO)  says: July 17th, 2010 at 8:03pm EST
Don't worry about it! Ignore the people who tease you because they already know what will come back to them in the end. Its a little thing called CARMA lol. And believe me once you get boobs you won't want them for much longer.hahaha

coconut monkey (NY)  says: July 16th, 2010 at 1:28pm EST
dont worry my dear



after this summer im going to the 8th grade and i still have the same problem




leplep (OH)  says: July 15th, 2010 at 11:23pm EST
P.S. im 11 and about to be in the 6th grade too and i have that same problem :(



B~) LP

leplep (OH)  says: July 15th, 2010 at 11:21pm EST
enjoy it when u dont have any boobs, its going to be hard to jump rope and run with out feeling uncomforable. when your boobs do start to grow that means u r closer to getting your period, and that is a real pain. besides who wants to blend in any way? Be different!



I hope this helped!!!

U





B~) LP

kissxolovexo (MA)  says: July 14th, 2010 at 6:06pm EST
i understand wen i was ur age i did not like to be flat chested but now i miss that cause have big boobs now everytime i see my friends wen i go to foot locker or the shoe store my friends say out loud damb u got coconuts lolol but i have a nice body people say alot of people like meeee just enjoy it k u will develop and u will have crushes lol hope this helps

()  says: July 13th, 2010 at 8:26pm EST
I actually have the exact opposite problem as you. I am too...not flat chested (lol). People don't nessesarily tease me about it, but I catch ALL the boys staring at me alot, and it makes me feel self concious sometimes. But I have learned to love what I have, even if its different than what everyone else has. Plus, my true friends wouldn't care if i had 2 giant watermelons hanging on my chest or just cherries (that was a really strange comparisson) They are true friends and stick by me no matter what. You should remember that too. Remember to love what you have, never try to change it, and know that your true friends wont care how you look!

CoolGirl5 (TX)  says: July 13th, 2010 at 8:06pm EST
ya im about to be 12 and my boob are just a little bit big. i mean like little tiny bit. Im about to go in 7th grade and im just gonna start wearing a A cup bra!

GlossDoctor101 (NH)  says: July 13th, 2010 at 10:18am EST
WHO CARES!!!!!!!!!!! I'M THE SAME AGE AS YOU!!!!!!!!!!! I DON'T CARE HOW "FLAT" I AM!!!!!!!!!!

ahh!iturnedintoawaffle! (DE)  says: July 12th, 2010 at 5:16pm EST
Don't stuff your bra! People will notice if your flat chested one day and then the next day your not. And imagine what would happen if the thing you stuff your bra with falls out when people are watching...

Besides, I'm sure you won't have this problem in a few years.


!Sunshinegirl! (AU)  says: July 12th, 2010 at 2:49am EST
LOL


!Sunshinegirl! (AU)  says: July 12th, 2010 at 2:49am EST
yo dudettes

sk8rgirl (MI)  says: July 11th, 2010 at 6:16pm EST
I went threw the same thing! i just got out of 6th grade and im going into 7th. When i was in 5th grade i had a flat chest i felt like i was the only one with a flat chest :( . but then over the summer i didn't have such a flat chest any more! so maybe if u be pateint u will be like everyone else! but if it dosent work out so well this is what my teacher taught us. "don't let other ppl dring u down. if u just say...AWWW thx! to them they will act all confused and think u r weird or something and they might say a couple of rude things but they just means they r running low on mean things to say to u! and then they will get bored with u and leave. then just keep on saying thx! awww!ur so nice! and maybe they will bug off"



Hope i helped!



-Skater

Smurfette458 (AU)  says: July 11th, 2010 at 6:14pm EST
the same with me. But my ex-best friend had really big boobs and got made fun for it. so i think being flat is technically alot better.

lipsmackergurl10 (NV)  says: July 11th, 2010 at 12:39pm EST
if any of u feel flat chested here is a way to grow them a lil faster eat edaname beans trust this works

lipsmackergurl10 (NV)  says: July 11th, 2010 at 12:34pm EST
same thing her to but mine are devoloping and so will yours

♥Sugar♦Plum♥ (CN)  says: July 11th, 2010 at 1:54am EST
You shouldn't worry about your breasts right now. I mean, girls your age are usually flat-chested anyway. As for being skinny, I am as well. I'm almost 12 and I'm only 67 pounds.

♥ :) !!Hola Chicas!! :) ♥, I feel your pain, sister!

Swimmergirl_99, your problems remind us all that no one is perfect, even the supermodels you see on all those magazines. And THEY had plastic surgery. And whatver you do, NEVER eat junk food to gain weight.



NOBODY'S PERFECT!



SMILE!




valeriesweetgrl (TX)  says: July 11th, 2010 at 12:01am EST
i am not flat chested and i am 12 and i weigh 94 pounds but i really never felt this way. or how u feel. i started developing in 4th grade and let me tell u, i didnt feel so awesome. sometimes i feel that its better to be flat chested and for real it is. just ignore the people who tease u. ok some girls at school stuff their bras and u think people dont look there but they do!! and they look closely cuz a guy said that this girl stuffed her bra and its obvious cuz she was flat chested then the next day she came with a big chest!!! u no boobs dont just grow big over night!! people will make fun of u cuz they call the girl "fake boobs" and sometimes the guys r like "hey so what did u stuff into ur bra today?" and the girl cries cuz she keeps getting made fun of. and what if the paper u stuff into ur bra falls out?? that will be totally embarr___ing!!!!!!!!!! so i am just telling u the things that MIGHT happen if u do stuff ur bra but dont worry, ur chest will start 2 grow. enjoy being flat chested while u can.

popcorn lover (AZ)  says: July 10th, 2010 at 10:13pm EST
Wow! Same thing with me. But I really dont care. and i am going to 6th grade this year!!! wowowowowowowow

fearless72 (TX)  says: July 10th, 2010 at 6:57pm EST
dont worry,around the age of eleven gurls breasts mature and grow more, mine did.

anna9banana (OH)  says: July 9th, 2010 at 6:01pm EST
just get a smaller soft cup bra instead of a regular training bra... u may not fill it all da way, but it will make you look slightly bigger

daddysgurl (CA)  says: July 9th, 2010 at 2:56pm EST
Yeah really don't stuff ur bra! It takes time to grow! I have the same problem too! But ppl rn't making fun of me YET! I wanted to try it but then said to myself "It is better to be flat!" Hope this helped!

ehgreenturtle (TX)  says: July 9th, 2010 at 1:35am EST
this is a message for all the girls who people tell u u look like sticks

at my old school my bff was a stick too- and every1 wanted to be her
what sucked was at my old school people got told they were fat if they were like normal size--- my crush told me that! but like if you really are a super stick (like you can see your ribs skinny) u should eat a couple brownies! jk and for the chest.. uh...well try a padded bra- they make ur chest look bigger and they help if you like get hit in the chest or fall on ur chest then they like protect them from getting hurt--- but dont get a ton of padding cuz that will show and might make you look funny
sorry this was long! hope it helps!

ehgreenturtle (TX)  says: July 9th, 2010 at 1:23am EST
i dont have a big chest
but i wish i had a smaller one
personally i think its way better to be flat than chesty

SlashFan2 (PA)  says: July 8th, 2010 at 10:10pm EST
I AM THE SAME AGE AS U AND MINE R THE SIZE OF AN 8TH GRADERS. I AM AVERAGE WEIGHT IF IT MEANS ANYTHING. I STARTED DEVELOPING IN THE 3RD GRADE AS FAR AS I REMEBER!! BELIEVE IT OR NOT. I HONESTLY WITH I DIDNT HAVE THEM CUZ ITS TO MUCH TROUBLE! I WISH I WAS LIKE U!

Juicy Girl111 (PA)  says: July 8th, 2010 at 8:01pm EST
u shouldn't stuff bras because its just like lying. some girls are happy they're flat chested! i got my boobs when i was 8...but u should be happy with who u r!

swaggerboo (AL)  says: July 8th, 2010 at 7:30pm EST
DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT IT BECAUSE I WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING JUS THIS YEAR IVE STARTED TO GROW IN THE 7TH GRADE PEOPLE MADE FUN OF ME AND ALLI DID WAS IGNORE THEM .THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE PEOLE ARE GONNA HAVE THINGS TO SAY ABOUT YOU JUS BRUSH IT OFF

musicgirl7898 (CT)  says: July 8th, 2010 at 5:21pm EST
nice advice and who cares wat people think

just ignore them

everybodys body devolps at a different pace

listen to miss smackers

jiggybear1 (NM)  says: July 8th, 2010 at 5:20pm EST
boobs arent the best thing in the world! but dont stuff u bra cuz thats kinda tacky lol ( no offense)instead how bout trying a padded bra? and bra shopping is incredibly embar___ing especially with your mom! and they hurt to! like if u get hugged to a hard ur boob hurts or if u et hit on ur chest that huts as well and it sucks..... so instead of stuffing try a padded bra

! ~ TOMMY GIRL ~ ! (WI)  says: July 8th, 2010 at 4:27pm EST
i agree with cc96 because bra shoping is a pain and they do get in the way of alot of stuff and if you really like this shirt and you try it on and then you find out that your boobs are in the way and the shirt is to tight ive been there done that so :-) i hope my advice helped

Jazzy :) (CN)  says: July 8th, 2010 at 3:02pm EST
i tottaly agree with cc96 but alos dont give up life is how it is !!!!!!!!!

lipsmackergirl12325 (MI)  says: July 8th, 2010 at 9:56am EST
nice advice i agree

purpledoglover (LA)  says: July 8th, 2010 at 5:38am EST
u no, its easier to develop l8r than earlier.. its way more embarrassing to be a 9 year old with a bra than a 12 year old with no bra. im pretty lucky cuz i had a growth spurt when my friends had it but i can understand how u feel

hotchick99 (IL)  says: July 7th, 2010 at 10:14pm EST
i agree with cc96 bra shopping is pain and torture espeically if your mom goes "Get over her do u think this is too big" really loud in the middle of Wal-mart lol but yeah i am flat chested too. BTW if u compare yourself to other people your never gonna be happy


m&ms (CA)  says: July 7th, 2010 at 7:56pm EST
my friend is flat chested also but one thing that u SHOULD NOT do is stuff your bra other wise people will be able to tell that you and your friend stuffed them...and that would be bad cuz then the people who make fun of you now what they say will get worse...trust me...ive seen it happen...and cc96 is right having breast really isnt fun! my cusin is 14 and she is soo mad because they are always in the way and stuff and she always says like ugghhh i sware i just want to rip my boobs off! i hate having them there such a pain! but yeah listen to cc96 miss smackers and me! lol hope i helped!



<3

cc96 (CT)  says: July 7th, 2010 at 4:22pm EST
everyone has gone threw this before. i know its annoying. but dont let people bring u down. u will start growing. just be pacient. trust me boobs r not so great anyway. its harder to find shirts, u sweat more, & bra shopping is pain.lol.