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keolove (VA) asks
June 23rd, 2010 at 2:50pm

My bff started hanging out with a girl THAT SLAPPED MY FACE and she wants me to become bff's with her and I don't know what to do!If i say no she will hang out with her more....it always happens like this.

Miss Smackers replies
June 25th, 2010 at 4:34pm

Read your question like it was someone elses and think about how you would answer. Would you think that this girl sounds like a good BFF? If she would pick a girl that slapped your face over you AND she wouldn't try to understand your hesitation in being the "face slappers" friend...she isn't a BFF. I think you should express how you feel to her and explain why you do not want to be BFF's with the other girl. A true BFF will understand. She may continue to be friends with the other girl, but if she is a true friend, she will not force you to be friends with her. She will also stick up for you when the other girl treats you bad. Try the talking thing first - if that doesn't work - then try the walking thing. I know it is hard to walk away from a friendship, but I can guarantee you it is easier than staying in a bad one. Be strong!!!! You deserve the best.

shawty4evr (GA) says: August 4th, 2010 at 9:59pm EST

Think about it. sometimes people do things BECAUSE they want to be friends with you. Or, their jelouse. You may have something that she doesnt have.

hotgirl101 (TN) says: August 4th, 2010 at 3:17pm EST

if my bff liked the girl that slapped me i would never talk to her again

ziz2 (MA)

says: July 30th, 2010 at 11:53am EST

wow ya tell ur friend

"I LOVE YOU" more than what I could show

dodgergirls (CA) says: July 28th, 2010 at 1:23pm EST

man that harsh dude if u dont wannna be friends with her just tell ur bff

MaciMama (AL)

says: July 27th, 2010 at 9:39am EST

Well Tell ur bff how you feel about the face slapper and most likely she will understand. If she just goes off and hangs out with her more than you just find true friends rather than best friends bcuz friends helpyou out best frineds stab you ibn the back and True Friends poke you wiff straws

I hope i help and good luck with your friend

munchey (CA) says: July 22nd, 2010 at 6:46pm EST

does she no about it , and if so she should no be ask u to do that but u should for give her

kaykay10 (AL) says: July 20th, 2010 at 11:57pm EST

i would say that you should try to be her friend see that works out

sweetheart346 (TX) says: July 19th, 2010 at 10:42pm EST

That doesnt sound like a nice friend. Someone slaps you and then your bff is friends with her and wants you to be friends with the one who slapped you? NO!!! Dont hang out with either one of them!!! They dont sound like REAL friends to me... try talking to ur bff about it and if she still hangs out with the one who slapped you then dont be either one of their friends at all... Hope this helps..

fun6 (TX) says: July 18th, 2010 at 8:04pm EST

miss smackers is right and you would not want to be friends with someone who went and slaped you in the face. LOL

kissxolovexo (MA) says: July 14th, 2010 at 5:54pm EST

and if she agervates u ignore her she is probly jelouse lol she is deff a hater i want u to stay strong and just tell her to her face to leave u alone cause u have no time for her games kkkkk

kissxolovexo (MA) says: July 14th, 2010 at 5:52pm EST

i agreee u need to talk to ur bf but to let u know if someone smackeed my face i would beat the ____ out of then sorry to say cause i would never smack someone on perpouse or if i was fighting if i was u i would hit her back girl i always tell my sister that cause she is 9 and girls pick on her lol do ur thing

beatiful101 (IN) says: July 9th, 2010 at 11:22pm EST

wat kind a slap?????????????????????IF IT WAS A ACCIDENTLY THEN I WOULD BE HER FRIEND BUT IF SHE CAME UP TO U AND SLAP U THEN I WOULDNT BE HERE FRIEND AND THEN GO TO YOU FRIEND AND SAY I CANT BE HER FRIEND BECAUSE WE HAD ISSUES BACK THEN

cc96 (CT) says: July 7th, 2010 at 4:30pm EST

try telling ur friend how u feel. if she gets upset & does not understand u, maybe she is not such a true friend. because this means she does not show respeact for ur feelings.

ehgreenturtle (TX)

says: July 4th, 2010 at 2:54pm EST

YA i agree with all of these comments and miss smackers-- i meeean why did your bff start hanging out with the slapper anyway?

i mean did she know that girl slapped ur face? if she was a true friend she wouldnt be hanging out with her and DEFINITLY wouldnt be trying to make u be her friend. if i was in this situation i would say no way to being that girls friend and if ur friend respects you and knows why u r o__ecting- she wouldnt get mad at u and might even consider talking to the slapper about it or not being her friend.

hope this helped.
sorry it was long!

Smackersprincess (OH)

says: July 4th, 2010 at 9:47am EST

I agree with miss Smackers. Your "bff" is not much of a bff... In fact, she kind of sounds like a stuck-up popular idiot. just saying.

♥Smackersprincess♥

Aqua Peach (HI)

says: July 3rd, 2010 at 5:33pm EST

That's a tough problem.

I hope everything turns out okay!

teamjacob123 (GA) says: July 3rd, 2010 at 9:40am EST

i have had the same thing happen to me. im in middle school and my old friend comes up and slaps me for no reason. but my true friends were there for me and went up to the girl and told her off for that. just find your true friends and they will be there for you. if ur other friend who hangs out with the face slapper doesnt understand that just forget about her she's not worth hanging on to. hope that helps the slittest.. ;) :) :/

GlossDoctor101 (NH)

says: July 3rd, 2010 at 8:18am EST

Why did she slap your face? I had a "BFF" do something like that to me and it hurt for a few days. I finally had to tell my mom and she ended up telling her parents. Then she must have gotten in trouble.

. But then she got all teary-eyed to me at school and I got really embar___ed.

skamps123 (AZ)

says: July 2nd, 2010 at 11:53am EST

I wouldn't be friends with her. Did your friend react when she slapped you? If not, then it's obvious that you shouldn't be friends with both of them! I hope you choose what you think is right!

Skamps123

Candeispeach (WA) says: July 2nd, 2010 at 2:58am EST

Yep lol mmy friends did the same thing it hurts alot :(

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luvslipgloss101 (MO) says: June 30th, 2010 at 2:12pm EST

Why did the girl slap you? was it a mis understanding? think about it....But u dont have 2 b friends with her just hang out with the other friend and if all she wants to do is hang out with the face slapper then she must not think ur good enough which means ur to good for her....

fantaheat (PA)

says: June 29th, 2010 at 5:48pm EST

hey

Kaiulani (AZ)

says: June 29th, 2010 at 5:32pm EST

if she would give your friendhip up for some face-slapperthen she's not your true friend. It msy be hard but maybe you should consider breaking off with your friend and find some new ones. But remember, stick up for yourself and you should be fine.

m&ms (CA)

says: June 29th, 2010 at 1:44pm EST

if your bff wants to be friends with the girl that slapped you, she obviously isnt a very good friend...if one of the girls in my class slapped my bff.. i would be sooo mad at her because that was my bff...and a couple months ago...my friend(not anymore) called my BFF the "b" word..and she told me not to tell her but i did anyways because i couldnt keep something like that away from her...especially when it was about her...i couldnt keep that secret away from her...but you SHOULDNT be friends with the girl that slapped you..and if your bff want to be friends with her then shes not such a very good friend if she does that to you..

i hope yo read this and i hope i helped..i also hope that you make the right choice! <3

music chic (AL) says: June 29th, 2010 at 1:38pm EST

wait quick question did she LITERALLY slap you or did she like be mean and "stab you in the back" not that it matters- shes mean either way but just wondering

purpledoglover (LA) says: June 29th, 2010 at 5:09am EST

talk to ur bff

roxy65 (CA)

says: June 28th, 2010 at 11:41pm EST

I think you should just talk to your bff and tell her that you dont like the way her friend has been treating you and if she does not understand then she should not be your bestfriend. :)

Jellybean92 (AL) says: June 28th, 2010 at 8:20pm EST

Dear Keolove,

tell your friens how you feel. She will understand. And if not who needs her any ways. Now i gotta cut this comment short because its time for dinner. Hamburgers A La Dad. LOL!

Your friend

Jellybean92

sugaryellow (CN) says: June 27th, 2010 at 3:48pm EST

thats great advice miss smackers is great :)

PRShkmp7 (MD) says: June 27th, 2010 at 2:30pm EST

Well, i personally think that you should move on from that friend and find new friends that don't make you be friends with someone who's hurt. Trust me, i have been through so many groups of friends i had to keep searching for the right one! hope this helps! :) :)

I LOVE AEROPOSTALE (PA) says: June 27th, 2010 at 12:26pm EST

i feel so bad for u! i would say no and then i would find another best friend! but that's just an opinion on a 11 year old girl!

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natalialuvsjacob (CA) says: June 26th, 2010 at 7:58pm EST

ha i'd slap her back

Julez220 (PA)

says: June 26th, 2010 at 7:36pm EST

ms smackers is right

BEDDYBOOP (IL)

says: June 26th, 2010 at 7:03pm EST

if some girl slapped me i would never be her friend i would hate her and im not a hator

eaglazer (OH) says: June 26th, 2010 at 5:11pm EST

dont be her bff maybe just her friend but not her bff

runwaymodelbabe♥ (WI)

says: June 26th, 2010 at 12:32pm EST

Tell ur bestie how u feel.

If she doesent understand,leave her alone.

Sometime's friend's r hard to manage....

says: June 26th, 2010 at 9:40am EST

dont be friends with the girl who slapped u. and try talking to ur bff. listen to miss smackers.

first comment

CountryFriedWinner (PA)

says: June 25th, 2010 at 7:39pm EST

I don't think you should. You can see if the person isn't being nice and you should stick up 4 yourself becuz who would want a friend that treats them bad?